I may have pushed my luck a little too far today.
I celebrated my birthday yesterday and felt that it was my rite to be able to hold my cat. I've been patient and he's come so far...this is just the logical next step right? This is a very traumatic thing to consider for my Marble but I feel like it's time to take the plunge and try.
WELL.....we had company over and he ended up hiding the whole day. SOOOOO, needless to say, there was no holding or cuddling happening. Today he nuzzled my leg and begged for attention.
This was my chance.
I was feeding my little munchkin her Cheerios when a heavy weight pushed against my leg. I reached down to a handful of fur and gave Marb a good scratch around his ears and a few strokes across his back. Purrs rattled the floor and encouraged me to continue. He flopped to the floor, legs out, and tan belly exposed. I tossed a few more Cheerios on A's tray and shifted in my chair. A few more rubs, a scratch here, and then I slowly maneuvered both hands around his body. He squirmed a bit, unsure as to what was about to happen.
Needless to say, this was not from today. |
Looks like I won't be getting cuddles any time soon.
That really looks like MY cat! From the facial marking, right down to the white chin. He has been shedding all over for a week now and only like to be held like when you burp a baby. None of this on his back cuddles. Funny the joys, fears, and lessons our pets help us understand. Your post shares that so well.
ReplyDeleteI love that you adopted him and gave him a wonderful home.
ReplyDeleteIn time, perhaps, as he is getting better and better and has come so far! I love the image of his fur shooting out like porcupine needles!
ReplyDeleteThanks for the chuckle this morning. We had two cats and neither one of them were cuddlers, oh they would sometimes give me the time of day and would allow me to scratch their ears and bellies, but pick them up to cuddle - no way! Cats seem to want attention in their time frame. Good luck with the cuddling!
ReplyDeleteWe are a dog family due to cat allergies but I am a pet lover of all kinds and always a sucker for a good animal story (as long as it doesn't involve hurt or injured animals, of course!). Thanks for starting my morning off.
ReplyDeleteHe is loved, and he knows that. Cats are such personalities!
ReplyDeleteThat's a great story! That shedding made me laugh - and you were so calm about his reaction. Thanks for sharing.
ReplyDeleteFunny! It's always great to hear a good cat story. And it's nice that you have been so patient with him. I'm sure he'll come around someday, and then it will have been worth the wait.
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